Fixable Life Team      Ron and Nancy, come from two very different walks of life.  Ron is from a family of six children and Nancy was raised as an only child.  Ron was unwanted—an inconvenience in his family, whereas Nancy was cherished.  Both however, were wounded in the early character-forming years and suffered the consequences of those painful experiences.        They honestly believed that theirs was a “match made in heaven,” but they say, “The day we married, we lit an inferno that nearly destroyed us and our daughters as well.”  Fortunately sheer determination to make the marriage work sent them back to school for a degree in Marriage and Family Therapy.  It was during that experience- an acquisition of knowledge- that they began to investigate and understand that their beginnings had set up the marital challenges that nearly ended their marriage. Thus began their journey to wholeness.      Since 1991, Rockeys have traveled the world teaching seminars designed to awaken people to the causes of dysfunction and to offer tools for resolving old issues, thus renewing the mind and creating positive futures.  Their own marriage is a model for those who are discouraged and feel that their marriage is without hope.      Their recovery programs: Binding the Wounds, and The Journey, facilitate emotional healing, and their books, seminars and personal help give knowledge needed for positive changes in one’s personal life and relationships.      Karan and Eric met each other at a time when both were desperate for change.  Karan had been married and was the mother of a son and daughter.  Eric was somewhat younger than her; longing for love and acceptance.  Each had addictions that were not serving them well, and their relationship became another of those addictions, designed to meet deep emotional needs.       Early on, their relationship became a nightmare.  Heated arguments became the norm for most days, complicated by alcohol, drugs and personal histories of dysfunction.      Pressed by their misery, they attended a Binding the Wounds Seminar, and then another and another. When a 7-Day Intensive Seminar was announced, they signed up for that too, and it was there that major positive change began to take place.  Their excitement led them to start facilitating recovery groups.      A move to Alaska did not stop their enthusiasm.  They began to start small recovery groups in Fairbanks and had nine small groups running at once!  With each small group they facilitated, healthy life changes and wiser decisions took place.      Both Karan and Eric are warm, friendly and capable individuals who impact those who meet them in a positive way. Eric has returned to college to obtain a degree in Psychology while working also. Karan is managing 2 Scoops, a lunch and ice cream shop here in Ruidoso.  In a short time, they have made friends and have small recovery groups meeting.  Karan also edits our Newsletter In December of 2009, Ron and Nancy conducted a “WHY?” Seminar in Fairbanks, Alaska.  On their last day in Alaska, Karan and Eric asked to meet with them and proposed their great desire—to move to where Rockeys were living and to be mentored.  “When the time comes that you cannot travel any longer, when you are just plain tired and want to stay home and write, we do not want your seminars to stop.  What you do cannot die!  Your work must still be available to help people like us to find internal peace and joy, to discover a relationship in which the two really can become one in marriage, and provide hope for people as they begin to discover how to find the comfort that most seek in a relationship with their Creator.”      In June of 2010, The Griffiths moved to Ruidoso, NM, rented a house, found work to support them as the mentoring took place, and have begun to teach with us here in Ruidoso and as finances permit, will accompany and teach “on the road” as well.  Our team is passionate about what we do.  “Our mess has become our mission.” Ron and Nancy Karan and Eric